After 10 years of coaching, I know what it takes to heal because I’ve lived it myself. I’ve lost everything and had to start over, faced anxiety, fear, and self-doubt, and learned to heal the wounds that left me unhappy in life and relationships.

I’ve felt rejected, scared of the future, and fearful that I may never find "the person." I struggled with codependency, being a people pleaser, and always living in survival mode.

In my early 30s, my husband of less than two years had an affair while I was pregnant. A month after giving birth, he asked for a divorce.

I was suddenly single and a first-time mom. I was abandoned not only by him but also by his family. I had no help near me and was left alone to manage it all on my own.

Over the next four years of being single (who wants to jump into another relationship after that trauma?), I knew I had to work on me. I didn’t want to “find my soulmate”;

I wanted to become healthy.

I knew it was my own dysfunction that allowed me to find that person attractive and to stay when I saw red flags. That is what needed work, not finding a distraction.

I dove into learning all about my traumas from deep abandonment issues to faulty programming to learning how my mind worked, nervous system regulation, and learning how to set goals and achieve them.

You’ve spent a lot of time on your own, putting the pieces back together after that last relationship left you drained.

You’ve cried the tears, done the deep healing, and honestly? You feel so much better than you used to.

But you didn't do all that hard work just to stay single forever out of fear, or to settle for an OK relationship.

This next chapter is about taking all the work you’ve done and going to the next level in your life. Higher standards, no fear, more confidence and getting the love you deserve.