What Men Really Want from Women: A Simple Guide
Jun 14, 2024
Understanding your partner’s needs can often feel challenging, especially when you are wounded and have a fear of giving love to someone. Both men and women at times come into relationship wanting something instead of seeing this as an opportunity to give.
While every person is unique, many men share certain key expectations that, when met, can lead to a stronger, more satisfying connection. As women let’s learn about these creatures because they are not that far off from us.
Respect
Men value respect deeply. They want to feel valued for what they bring to the table. When you're dating a guy, it's not just about respecting him automatically. If you're getting to know him and you don't respect his lifestyle, his emotional awareness, his ambitions, his financial stability, how he treats you and others, then he might not be the right match for you.
Then it is up to you to see this person as someone who is not right for you instead of trying to change him, which is what a lot of women do.
Respect is not about changing him or teaching him how to be a man. It's about honoring him and letting him be himself (if you respect him). Encourage him, let him lead in areas where he's strong, and avoid the urge to control or criticize. Complaining won't change him, but respecting and valuing his efforts will make him feel cherished, which is turn will allow him to give more to the relationship.
If you want a man to cherish and take care of you emotionally, be ready to offer the same respect and care in return. Remember he may not be able to do these things for you and that does not mean you stay or accept less, this is about knowing the right one and honoring HIM instead of being wounded yourself and putting your walls up.
Acceptance
Acceptance doesn't mean allowing him to do whatever he wants. It means valuing him for who he is without trying to change him. Accept his help, which makes him feel valued and capable. If you've been independent for a long time or have been hurt in the past, it might be hard to let someone else take care of you. But allowing him to help and appreciating it can strengthen your bond.
Learning to ask for help, like "Can you get that?" or "Can you do this?" can make a big difference. It shows that you trust him and value his contributions.
Affection and Softness
Men appreciate affection and softness. They may not always show it, but they crave love, hugs, and gentle touches. This isn't just about sex; it's about being playful and loving. Affection allows them to relax and connect emotionally.
Show your softer side. Give hugs, be playful, and show love in small ways. It helps men feel comfortable and loved, balancing their masculine energy with a touch of tenderness.
Respect, acceptance, and affection are key to understanding what men want in a relationship. By offering these, you can create a deeper, more fulfilling connection. Remember, relationships are about mutual respect and support. When both partners feel valued and loved, the bond grows stronger, but you cannot do this with a wounded man or if you are still wounded yourself.
